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Моя История перевод 2018 год

12 Февраль 2023

My story

I used to live in Canada for 3 and half years, I became a different person, love made me Better, then I returned to Russia, as the religious society could not accept me SUCH as I was, resurrected, perfect, Lady

We are forgiven, 
We are re-baptized, 
We are born again,
And yet we are still there,
We carry out His body, 
His spirit,His soul, 
His law in our chest..

I experienced big love that was not needed to anybody in the world because my husband did not love me, his heart was ill with hatred cause of his life experience at young age: I was not the first of his wives.

As for love, I attained it in Canada where we used to live for 3 and a half years

I would have never found Love in Russia as I had it only in my loins, while my soul continued to be lonely. 
I'm Canada, my soul found bright-room

The encoucurd childhood of mine
I was baptized in a “vestibule”, a kind of a hut on the territory of the Church, looking somewhat like a bath-house, with dark walls, lit candles, priests vested, me almost naked wearing panties, my arms folded, shy, 8 years old, brother Max of about 3 years old, they say such an atmosphere of baptism can get the desired impact back.
Then we went out, it was daytime, I looked at the Church, I raised my head, there was a high white bell tower and a spire.

My mother, She is very strong, but why did she feel so much anger to me? Her situation was - a job, and daily routine, and husband, and tiredness at coming home, and a mess in it, then - a wave of annoyance causing anger, shouting, "war". How could I experience gracious serenity when my heart was brought up on other ideals, implying that I had a lot of responsibilities, but I did not know how to ask someone in such a way that they would perform the request with joy, as this is possible only through love, only through Christ. 

There was no Christ between the two, between my parents, and they did not go to church, for them church meant just a pope. Candles, icons, twilight. But when you needed something from church, the priests did not welcome you and mostly kept you off themselves. Are you baptized? You are....here is a candle,

They lit a candle in front of an icon,
The candle was crying tremblingly,
They candle was telling the story, praying,
The faster the flame the stronger the candle.

The Church perceived the Soviet Union as an Enemy, starting from the thirties,  such as the Soviet government take property of the church and give it to the state. 
and they look at the genus. 

They wanted justice, a paradise on earth
But caused violent rage 
Instead of deep love

But people used to write out about the Truth, they do know what is good what is bad, and they have conscience that helps them to distinguish between the black and the white
My MOTHER used to sew festive clothing, she wanted me to be the best and she did love me, in her own way
Love, we watched movies, their heroes were our ideals
I always loved someone when I was a kid. My environment seemed more bright through this love of mine
Sport helped me to release my heart,
I was engaged in javelin throwing, but there were sports injuries, I was taken to a sports boarding school, I had a lot of physical strength, but sports injuries did hurt.
I had a surgery, they replaced cruciate and lateral ligaments with the unNATURAL ones.
And I probably did not experience the love of God, when you have joy in your heart and no other heart is needed anymore.
I knew that friendship was important for the creation of a family and could believe that I would find it, 

The whole world is not needed
Needed is the only one
The whole world in that one
But only one..
The aim of family creation is Children.
I need to say in advance that there was no mutual love between my husband and me, there was just politics and interest. We came together to have children  
I loved him as I could and gave birth to two children of his, Stas and Yulia, but I surely did not love him as strongly as I did through my heart in Canada.

Before Canada, my husband and I together ran an organization for the refilling of cartridges, 
I was earning money, in Russia, and then I was loved only for them, and it was hard with two small children  
I didn't know what a house really meant for a Wife, I was away from my house, I was not a Wife and did not know what it meant to be a wife

Then we moved to Canada 

Only recently I told myself that I would never love anybody else and missed this feeling, but it did come to me. In Canada, it happened so that I deeply fell in love with a man. The arrow of love hit the heart very deeply, and I was filled with pure love. I could hardly breathe… 
I even wrote a letter to him and said I loved him. 
But he said sorry, he did not need it, and I went to Church. 

And now there is love instead of a pit in my heart. And everything is different, I've changed, become better… 
But my husband, I could not love him anymore, after 10 years since the day of our wedding, my heart was still free.

And on the other side of the globe, the air was different, so was the environment. But I could never divorce with my husband,  
But I read the Gospels, performed the morning and evening services, 

What is sol? It is a note
A note but not just it
Salt is the cornerstone laid in the corner pivot
To pray, to be salted, sanctified, preserved
What is sol – it is a note, but not just it
It is a prayer of yours

 (“Salt” and “sol” "soul' in Russian read as the same word – translator’s note, food, part of heard)

How did I reach my Gospels? Life was my teacher,
So my love to a man passed to Jesus Christ 
I felt better after a prayer, but it was still hard, 

and I decided to come back to Russia. 
In Russia, my husband tried to adjust me to become a person I used to be,
He had only work in his heart and nothing else, 
but I did remember how much we worked before moving to Canada, 

I resisted, kept hold of the soul loved by the Lord, wanted my children to be in my heart and my love for Christ to stay in it too. 

I worked as a school-teacher of physical culture, but the unspoken rule worked against me, a teacher of physical culture was supposed to have a good family, meaning that wife and husband had to live in love and no other way.
They fired me.…
In 2014, I wanted to go to a convent but obtained no blessing as they said, “Go to grow up your children” until their adulthood. 
They forwarded me to work at church
I said, “There's little pay”, they said, “Well, we can’t help”, 
I agreed that one didn’t go to church for money, moreover, the decision to go to a convent (to live at the church) was very deeply perceived, I even called my family and told them about it. It was very difficult to make this step, but I understood that it would be more difficult to keep up in the world. They did not take me, 
Julia was 16, Stas was 18 years old
And in October I went to work in the refectory of the Alexander Nevsky Lavra as a cleaner. 
I attended the service in the morning and did my job after it, but “You can be with God working in any profession”
So, to me, it was a continuation of my monastic life.
I kept hold of my soul, they one loved by the Lord.

I went to the services of Christ and thought they had the same laws. 
This is my commandment, That ye love one another, - this is what Christ said,
And the Clerical circle in the Church is such that there are papas at its head, and the rest have to be a part of it, the one they have to manage 
Papas did love each other, 
But as for me, I went to Christ’s Lavra praying the Lord to heal all the wounds of my soul
And I brought the result of my prayer to Church
I brought my Christ to it
My spiritual wealth
And they got scared because they started to love me by my spirit,
There are Christ’s children up there 
And here is the hierarchy alone. 
Profession, social strata, all are equal before God, but only before Him 
Papas followed the way of hierarchy.
My Lord became their Lord and papas probably felt that................................................there is more of God, and also tried to keep hold of the soul Loved by the Lord and expanded the convent
Moreover, the husband did not love me from heart to heart, and in Russia everything depends on husband, the world treats you as your husband does 
I should have given my husband quite a bit of the love they had to my Christ, but he didn't want to love anyone, it was convenient, he used to love one day and left his heart in his first marriage (heart is love)

I should have left the family, go to live at my mother’s, as she loved me a little, but I didn't leave as I HAD CHILDREN, I WAS A MOTHER
So, I used to take my heart to the service every morning, just for the love of Christ, and it passed from one person to another, 
And the Kingdom of Heaven was built on this of Feeling of Love
I came to church as if it was the Day of Judgment
They treated me with caution, something like - she should not be in the church, let alone in our hearts. She has no bottom

First, the hostility, they thought I was one of the women of pleasure praying for forgiveness
Second, our love, they want to use it to their advantage as the above mentioned usually do (as it is possible to tacitly control the human soul through love). THEY WERE AFRAID

I felt tension, they were dissatisfied that I attended services too often
They started to ban it, to tacitly take away my Spiritual wealth. 

There were so many tears, love and pain, and now I cannot even feel it, they have shortened my heart twice.  

My husband was spiritually changing; we were only growing children together
He was given the blessing to live separately, so he moved to sleep in another bed. 
He began to alienate more and more, asked for a blessing to divorce, but the spiritual father of the spouse said it was a SIN

And I found myself in a situation where love turns into indifference
And I felt I needed a basis, everything was changing
And thus, the world used to love me, but now it hates me. 
And I used to feel love to my children, but now – where are you, a mother in me? 
I do not feel love to my children (as sure as church) 
There is only a wall of indifference, 
It is only after the service in the House of God that we make warm relationship, 
But my husband is still unhappy, he wants to be the only one having good relationship with children, 
And my husband raised our children with money only

But I cannot do the same anymore, I continue to keep hold of my soul by attending morning services, and this love helped me in all the good.

Coming back from the Service, spiritually elevated and airy,
I open the Door and send my wishes of Good morning to you,
Peace be to this house, the Peace of mine I bring to you

The end of service, A song of the Psalter 
Bows, shiny eyes,
Open sky of the domes
And the quiet breathing of icons is heard

But only after the Service can I usually feel from soul to soul that the children’s situation is not easy, I was in Heaven and now – on Earth.
Now my cross is that of wood

And Again I am below zero, It’s where only money that go from heart to heart
But I was forwarded to work in the church as they told me to do when I wanted to go to a convent, due to a disorder in the family

He, the Lord, can see how you feel, how much love you have, war is below zero, peace is above zero. It's all the love of His. 

Where and how she came to Church – 
it was a convent I lived in for a month, 
she was my cousin Sveta, and now she is Mother Olga, 
the Mother of ours, she can be trusted and our hearts – and mine too – can be trusted to her, 
Without permission, like despots, they took a decision to pass the heart, the Easter mood, to a convent.

Easter mood - prematurely,
Easter mood - in the middle of the Lent 
Easter mood - prematurely,
Easter mood, I wish it lasts forever

And later, everything I had obtained by earnest entreaties over 9 years, 
they wanted to make me out of her and then pass the heart 
on to their insider person, as if I were a stranger to the church, a worldling, 
and they did not even try to understand me and sealed me as a passers-by parishioner. 
It would suffice for a simple worldly organization, but not for the Christian Orthodox Church...  
In Canada, I was given the New Testament, and when I returned to Russia, the Old Testament was given to me.
They looked at the family - who the mother was, what property she owned. And held a court.
They dropped me down from the Heaven to the Earth, looking for the grounds to love me for what kind of person I was. But they did not find the grounds not to love me either.
My husband does not love me, so they won’t be able to
I felt sick from the job I had to do when I simply squeezed his hatred and unwanted feelings from myself, we did not live together for a long time
During the day, there are worries, problems, but after a run there is no reason why I can’t just pray.
And they fire me for the reasons beyond their control, thinking of me as of a woman of easy virtue.
They fired me
I went to work at a post office, the work was physically hard, but it was easier with prayer, my prayer turned out alive, it said  

Hail Mary, full of grace. Our Lord is with Thee. Blessed art Thou amongst women and blessed is the Fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. 

They were going to do it too but then changed for other people around me
I used to go to the Lavra before the work, this is how I remained in one piece
They fired me for the same reason… She has no bottom
The convent I wanted to go to refused to adopt me, they took a bad example to repossess the spiritual wealth

It’s so well, indeed,
If need be – they will pick me up and carry, only I do not know where
This was said to me, and that I said myself 
Not responsible for anything
They are such and so am I

Sveta is good person, the holy soul, she does not love for the spirit and does not take the grace away, and they say that spiritual wealth is such that no thief can steal it and no aphids can undermine it

The spirit and the soul at the opposite poles, so it always happens when a person comes to church

Shut up, pretend and put on your vestments 
For not to be revealed.
But it is better
To put on your vestment
And believe that this is who you are

Learn, student, learn. Live and remember
And there is no disagreement between the spirit and the soul, when there is honey on your tongue but bad things in your heart.
We are in a vestibule, not in the Church.
And then, all the world's a stage and we are all players on it.
When wholeheartedly, the heart is the head. MEANING THAT THERE IS NO SECOND BOTTOM
How to achieve the consent between the soul and the spirit, when everything is wholehearted, otherwise we will remain in a vestibule of "Honey on the tongue but as for the heart, you FEEL THE SECOND BOTTOM there." 
I did turn to Him, but it is hard to follow Him now, I am destroyed by resistance and my faith in justice, and there is only sniveling and the left hand aching where love is supposed to live

I Listened to the sermon to Christ
I said "Amen" and turned to Him

I used to come to a convent for a month 
And at that time I was better, stronger, I had more faith and love, 
And the mother told me that we hindered each other.
After two years, when it was time to go to a convent, I refused: my children became students and they needed me.
They found a reason to hate me
But they said children did not need me and started to turn children against me (as I earned little money)
I started to hear from my husband and son that I interfered with their life, they told me to go to live at grandmother’s.
They firmly believe in the bad, then look for a reason to punish and fail to find it, I hope that I am an exception from the rules

I used to go to the Lavra every day for 2 years, praying for the family - Julia, Stas, Igor, 

The result:
Children, witnessing such an attitude of father to mother, lost their respect for their mother, 
I don’t earn enough money
They fire me from work for the reasons beyond their control,
I cannot find a job by my profession anymore 
Children receive money from my spouse together with his disrespect for me
We separated by mutual agreement 
It is impossible to sleep at home

Yes, they do not take my housing away, but they take my life away and give the life of somebody else instead. 

I want to go back to where I am supposed to be, but for this case.

You can say that it only seems to me to be like this, but if so, everything around us is just a mirage, it does not exist just like you don’t, He doesn’t see you just like you don’t see Him, and if not - just say “I believe, so be it”

Since 2007, I have tried to keep the gift I received in Canada. I chose the law, and now love is always with me. 

My Love for Jesus Christ and His love for man and this is the order and the rule. 

Him to me, and this is when you live in His world, you fulfill His commandments out of love and not out of duty. All these years I tried to save and pass this state to my children. Since 2014, I went to Church Services every day, because I lived for a month in accordance with the monastic charter. I tried to adhere to this charter in the world in order to preserve the love of Jesus Christ, which helped me in everything good. 

But the church ministers showed themselves, missundertand me the essence, condemned me. I came to the temple like a terrible judgment.

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